Friday, May 02, 2008
My Scooter
My Scooter is gone and it is almost more than I can bear. He was the sweetest, bravest, most gentle, beautiful friend a person could ever ask for. And today he could not recover from his terrible "cocker spaniel" genes, bad back, bad legs, bad hips ... and it was time to let him go with some dignity. With tears we have all been remembering the good times with him, the many mornings he escaped the front door and I would chase him around the neighborhood in my pajamas (before I considered wearing my PJ's 24-7 and got embarrassed if my neighbors saw me in them). The time he survived being run over by a car in front of our house. He loved the kids, the snow, sleeping with me, being with me, getting "blow dried", his liver treats, his squeaky toy, Pica ... I was kissing him the moment he left this world and exhaled in his last breathe. Scooter, you were the best pet a family could ever have and we are going to miss you so much! Sweet dreams, my Scooter.
Kim, I am so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it is to lose a beloved pet, really a member of the family, and my heart goes out to you all. It sounds like you gave him a wonderful life and I'm glad you were with him when he left this world. Thinking of you, hugs, Cassi
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I am so sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteI had a black cocker, Brittany was her name and we had her for 14 years and was so much a part of my life.
Just know that he is across the Rainbow Bridge having a great time with friends and feeling no aches & pains.
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Oh, Kim! I'm so sorry! We have been through this twice with elderly dogs, and knowing that it is coming still did not dull the pain. Big hugs to you!
ReplyDeleteOh, Kim, I'm so sorry. He was beautiful. Thanks for being with him at the end, that's important.
ReplyDeleteKim, I am so sorry for your loss. We too had a cocker spaniel, Emma, whom my husband referred to as his "little blonde bimbo". They are lovely, sweet dogs and we enjoyed her for 13 years. I know how hard this is for you.
ReplyDeleteKim, My heart is with you. I had to say goodbye to my Hugo 3 weeks ago. It is a time of deep pain. I will be thinking of you and wishing you peace.
ReplyDeleteKim, I'm so sorry about Scooter. I remember him as being such a friendly and sweet dog, one that made us feel welcome even if he didn't know us. He and your family are in our thoughts.
ReplyDeleteOh Kim... Your story brought tears to my eyes. I know just what loving your dog is like and I can hardly imagine the pain of letting it go on.
ReplyDeleteFeeling for you, Kim. Big hug.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you filled his life with fun and love. That's a perfect gift.
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I am so sad for you and your family. There are no words........
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Oh no. So so sorry to hear this, Kim. God speed and God bless Scooter on his way. These wonderful animals are so key to our hearts and lives. Their loss is so deeply felt. That all of it has to end is unbearable.
ReplyDeleteKim, you and your family have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss. Scooter couldn't have had a better life, I'm sure of it and now he's back to the good old days where there are no achy hips and bad backs. Sending you big hugs and happy thoughts.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry Kim. I echo what everyone has already said. Loosing a dear things like Scooter is so sad. They really become like children and leave a large hole in our universe when they are gone. Sending you hugs from the east.
ReplyDeleteKimmy, soooo sorry for your loss... sending you hugs... LindaSonia
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry Kim for u and your family.Hugs from our family to your family.
ReplyDeleteKim, I am so sorry for your loss. Saying good bye to our children with fur is so difficult and heart breaking. Cherish your memories and the love that you shared.
ReplyDeleteKim - I remember when you got Scooter and the early years when he was Matt's Scootie. He was just as sweet a dog this past Christmas as he was on his first. Remember he was loved and you all gave him a great home. He was brave the last years considering his problems. Take care. luvyall. GPMC
ReplyDeleteOnly if it helps. This -- http://archive.southcoasttoday.com/daily/07-03/07-05-03/c04li119.htm -- was my reaction to Dulce's death and the question that haunted me: Why do we keep falling in love with critters bound to die before us and break our hearts?
ReplyDeleteI miss Scootie and am seeing him with that silly, soiled "doll" in his mouth, shaking it back and forth. He is happier today than he was yesterday.
Kate
I'm so sorry. Your post brought tears to me too. I still miss my former dogs, and I can make myself cry just by thinking about losing my little Lucy Lui one day. Hang in there, and think about doggie heaven.
ReplyDeleteDang, you are the third friend to have to give their little one their wings in a weeks time. Every time someone lets go of their pet I speak to Chester so he can round up all his friends on the other side and go to the Rainbow Bridge to welcome them across. Chester has so many friends now and he loves his new job.
ReplyDeleteLet your heart rejoice as it aches.
Kim, I feel for your loss having just gone through the same thing with my Chow "Sibby" only a year ago. She was a member of our family for 16 years, and not a day goes by that I don't think of her in some way. You and your family are in my thoughts. Enjoy the memories. Scooter will always be with you....
ReplyDeletei am so sorry dear friend. my heart aches for you reading these words...losing a loving companion like scooter is heartbreaking...
ReplyDeletesending you love and peace.
Oh Kim, I just read about your loss. I am so very sorry. Two years ago, when I lost my Pepper, he too died right there with me holding him in the rocker at the vet's office. One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Until less than two months later, holding my best friend as she too took her last breath. Something one takes with them forever, no matter how far they go. Hugs. More hugs.
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oh kim....i'm so, so sorry...i know how much scooter meant to you...i'm holding your in my heart...loving you...and thinking about you...
ReplyDeleteps--i'm going to call you tonight to check on you...
ReplyDeleteKim, I am so very sorry. Scooter will still be right there with you, just in your heart now. Take care, all of you, Elana.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking for you! It is devastating to loose such a heartfelt and loyal friend. What a magnificent pup! Cockers are so loving.
ReplyDeleteDamn. I feel for you and your family. Your Scooter sounds like the most lovely of friends... What a blessing to have had him all these years!!
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